Your privacy, plainly

Short version: we collect almost nothing, and we never sell or share anything.

The question box

When you send a question, it's emailed to us through a form service called FormSubmit. We don't ask for your name or email, so don't include them unless you want to. If we ever turn a question into a post, we change every detail so it can't be traced back to you.

The free guide

If you ask for the free guide, your email address comes to us the same way, through FormSubmit, and FormSubmit sends you one email with the download link. We keep your address so we can send you the occasional new post or guide. We never sell or share it, and if you want off, email us and it's gone.

Buying a guide

Guides are sold through Patreon. Patreon handles the payment and your account details under its own privacy policy. We see what Patreon shows creators, nothing more.

Visiting the site

We don't use ads or tracking cookies, and our fonts are hosted on this site, not by Google. Our hosting provider may keep basic, anonymous visit counts (things like page views and country) to keep the site running.

Links to other sites

When you click through to Patreon, X, Bluesky, Instagram, TikTok or FetLife, their own privacy policies apply.

Getting in touch

Questions, or want something you sent us deleted? Email [email protected].

Last updated November 2026.